Emotional Sobriety & Feeling Your Own Feelings
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๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ!โฃ
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Iโve been experimenting recently with a budding โSober Curiosity.โ โฃ
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I thought it had to do with alcohol. But really it had to do with my own emotions.โฃ
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There was a lot going on in my extended family and, emotionally...โฃ
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โข I spent a great deal of energy trying to figure out how to make them okay with me, so I could feel okay (with me).โฃ
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โข I was obsessed with being understood. If I was understood I felt safe. If I wasn't understood, I was unsure of my worth.โฃ
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โข I put my all into spiritually bypassing, calling my lack of healthy boundaries, โforgiveness.โโฃ
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Emotional sobriety means being able to confront and cope with all our negative emotions, i.e. the triggers we feel around our deepest fears of being unloved, unwanted, and unaccepted.โฃ
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๐ช๐ก๐๐ง ๐ข๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐ฑ, ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ง ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐ ๐ฆ๐๐งโ๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ before ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ข๐ซ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง.โฃ
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And...when we are more in tune with what is going on with others, we lose connection with our own experiences, desires and truth. We lose connection to our body and our intuition, our feminine wisdom and our โjoie de vivre.โ
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This contributes to anxiety and depression, a lack of libido, or sexual energy getting projected in all the wrong places.โฃ
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Here is what I know for sure after several years of coaching women in how to own their femininity and get over shame...โฃ
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๐๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฌ๐๐ฑ ๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฌ๐๐ฑ๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฌ๐ง'๐ญ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ฑ.... ๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ ๐
๐๐๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ฑ.โฃ
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It's about learning how to feel our emotions as our super-power, instead of our shut-down.โฃ
The holidays are coming, which means family triggers are coming. This entire YEAR has been chock-full of triggers and who knows whatโs next for 2021. If you want this coming year to be different and to ground yourself in the only thing you control, might I again suggest giving emotional sobriety a try?
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Personally, I am learning to how to sober up in my relationships.โฃ
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When I work with women 1-on-1 we work a lot on honoring all emotions and feeling them as sensations that set her free instead of stories that keep her stuck.โฃ
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This is emotional sobriety and itโs a game-changer in your sex, love & relationships, and personal sovereignty. And the good news is, Iโm opening up my calendar for Discovery Calls for the next two months as I prepare for my next launch.
No, this isnโt a post to sell you on working with me, I believe in you so much that I know you can get emotionally sober on your own!
BUT if you want to go farther, faster and you know investing in a community of women coached by me in my signature Feminine Wholeness Method that releases you from the habitual trances of your daily life and brings emotional freedom slide into my DMโs on Instagram or email my assistant at team@morgandaycecil.com to get on my calendar! Iโm here for you and your healing.